Creating a wedding timeline can be tricky. There are a lot of boxes to check, tons of moving parts, and plenty of people and places involved. But all of those things are exactly why you need a wedding timeline! Planning out a schedule for your big day is the only way to to synchronize vendors, avoid delays, coordinate the wedding party, and maximize your time. It reduces stress and keeps everyone on the same page. But with so many things to fit in, it’s easy to worry about the flow instead of going with it. No worries here, though. I’ve been doing this for more than a decade! Let’s talk about how to design a day that doesn’t feel rushed (and photographs beautifully)!

Timeline Tip No. 1: Build in Buffers

When you create your wedding timeline, I always suggest leaving 10-15 minute buffers between each event. Most obviously because it allows for some delays without getting off track, but there’s more to it than that. It’s more than a buffer. It’s breathing room! If everything is running smoothly, those 15 minutes give you a chance to pause and relax without feeling guilty or stressed about the time you’re taking. When you don’t need to run from one thing to the next, you can enjoy the day, fix the lipstick, have conversations, and take it all in. And if something does take longer than expected? You won’t panic. It’s all built into the plan.

Bonus Tips to Protect Your Buffers: First, do your “first look” early. Scheduling a first look allows you to take 95% of photos before the ceremony, letting you actually attend your cocktail hour with a huge portion of your shot and to-do lists out of the way. Morning ceremony? Take your photos the night before, or even on the day of your hair and makeup trial.

Next, be sure you’re not managing the wedding timeline all by yourself. Enlist a wedding planner, family member, or person in the wedding party to answer scheduling questions and check-in throughout the day to make sure everyone is still on track. It’s helpful if all your wedding day locations are close together to avoid unknowns like traffic, and it’s absolutely crucial that your timeline, expectations, and any changes made are communicated clearly throughout the planning process and the big day.

Wedding Timeline Tip No. 2: Create the Calm

As you’re scheduling things like bridal party portraits, hors d’oeuvres, and first dances, don’t forget to schedule things that keep things calm! Add light, predictable meals outside the reception to your day’s agenda to avoid getting lightheaded, nauseous, or “hangry.” Add moments of breath and hydration, whether that’s through a planned “getting ready” playlist, or simply making space for a cup of tea, or an episode or two of your favorite comfort show in the quiet moments before and between things.

Bonus Tips to Protect Your Calm: First, prep your details, like packing your dress, any changes of clothes, hair supplies, rings, invitation suite for photos, etc. the day or throughout the week before. The less you have to worry about on your wedding day the better! Delegate wedding day tasks like handling breakfast and lunch, making coffee runs, supplying bridal suite snacks and water bottles, and setting up personal decor. On its own, each task is easy and manageable. All together, these things go a long way in creating a relaxing day, and takes it off your plate so you can enjoy!

Last but not least, keep your prep spaces tidy, or ask someone to be in charge of behind-the-scenes organization. Keeping your getting-ready room neat not only makes for cleaner wedding prep photos, it creates a calming space for everyone throughout the day.

Timeline Tip No. 3: Prioritize What’s Important

Every couple has different priorities for their big day. Make sure you’ve identified and communicated yours, then make sure your wedding timeline reflects them. Are album-worthy photos a must? Make sure you schedule plenty of time for portraits so you’re not feeling (and looking!) rushed. Is sitting down and enjoying dinner at your reception important to you? Make sure that time is blocked out without interruption. Do you and your new spouse want a few minutes alone at any point? Build in 10-15 minutes immediately after the ceremony to breathe and enjoy being married, away from guests. Whatever is important to you, make sure it’s prioritized on your wedding timeline.

Bonus Tips for Prioritizing What’s Important: First, prioritize food. I can’t tell you how often people forget to eat on these big days, and it always catches up with you! Even if it doesn’t seem important to you right now, be sure to include at least two meals on your big day, along with plenty of snacks and water.

Second, prioritize your comfort. In a practical sense, like packing an extra pair of flats, slippers or sweats to change into if needed, but and in a mental sense. If you’re not comfortable around large groups of people for long periods of time, schedule yourself some escapes. Or if you want to be around people all day long, schedule some fun group activities. If you know you’ll need some time with your mom, sibling, Maid of Honor, etc., make sure you’re scheduled to do certain tasks together. Trust me, there will be so much going on, if you don’t plan it in advance, it might not happen! Having a plan and sticking to it is one of the best things you can do for yourself on your wedding day.

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The Manor House is a historic property that includes the beautifully restored mansion, originally built in 1914, and Kent’s Cottage, added in 1917—perfect for hair and make up, getting ready photos, and pre-ceremony activities. Each space is completely versatile, creating it’s own perfect backdrop for rustic outdoor mountains, historic mansion elegance, or cozy fireplace vibes.

Did I mention the historic mansion features a grand ballroom? Add that to the panoramic views, and there are no bad angles to be photographed! Plus the layout allows for easy transitions between ceremony, cocktails, dinner, and dancing, all with a uniquely sophisticated atmosphere.

Ever heard the term “full-service venue?” Well The Manor House certainly is just that! They have their own team of event professionals ready to make sure your day runs smoothly, and even offer in-house catering and bar services. So your planner, coordinator, food and beverage vendors? Check! Talk about taking the stress out of planning!

What’s more? This space is exclusively yours once you book, which means a truly seamless experience for you and your guests. Oh, and full, private access to the venue and grounds! See a photo op? It’s yours. See? A Colorado wedding photographer’s dream!

Are you planning a Manor House wedding? Let’s get started! I’d love to capture your joy-filled moments at this extraordinary venue. With views like these? Your wedding gallery is sure to make your heart swell.