To me, family wedding portraits are a must at every wedding. Yes, bridal portraits and pictures of the happy couple are definitely important, but oftentimes, a wedding serves as a family reunion! That makes family wedding portraits important keepsakes, documenting those rare occasions when everyone is all together—and dressed up! Trust me, you’ll cherish every photo from the big day, but nine times out of 10, these are the most shared (and most printed out!) images, loved and kept by every family member.
But with multiple people in an image, and multiple generations to boot, family wedding portraits need a little bit of planning to pull off, and pull off well. So without further ado, here are my top tips for stress-free family wedding portraits (even with kids!)
If portraits are something you’re definitely looking for, and you know there’s a lot of family to capture, talk with your wedding photographer well in advance. They’re likely building out a schedule of the day, and knowing this is something that needs to be prioritized (and could take a while!) will help make sure everything runs smoothly. While you’re chatting, be sure to mention any challenges like sticky family relationships, multiple children, older family members, etc. I’ve been photographing weddings more than 10 years now, and I can tell you there’s no such thing as too much information! Especially when it comes to being prepared.
It’s also helpful to have a shot list written out and ready to go. That way your family can work with your photographer to keep things moving efficiently! If there are groupings of people you know you want photographed (or some you know you don’t!), communicate those pairings before the big day. Need some help thinking it through? Here are some ideas to get the ball rolling!
Family wedding portraits take time, and you want to make sure they’re done well. So my best advice? Don’t try to squeeze them in somewhere on an already eventful day! Talk it over with your wedding crew, decide on a timeframe, and make sure that schedule is clearly communicated with everyone who is expected for photos. Believe me, nothing breaks the momentum of a wedding schedule like needing to track people down! I recommend checking family wedding portraits off the shot list early, before you start to lose the youngest and oldest generations. Whatever fits best into your day, here are some tried and true times to think about:
Last but not least, make sure you delegate tasks, and communicate expectations clearly! Coordinating family members can be challenging, but putting someone in charge of gathering people, someone in charge of entertaining kids, someone in charge of communication, etc. can go a long way in making sure your family wedding portraits run smoothly. You might even need a buffer person to navigate family dynamics! Planning makes everything easier, even when it comes to wedding portraits. So here are some things you can take off your plate (and give to someone else!):
Need some more inspiration? I’ve got you covered! Check out my five steps to stunning bridal portraits, or my five tips for a successful family photo session here.
I think we can all agree that family photos are a must. No matter what your family looks like today, the nature of time is that it’s always changing. Your kids will only be the ages they are once. Your family is only all together so often. With so many new seasons of life to celebrate, it’s no wonder we all want pictures to help us remember each season perfectly! But there are lots of different image styles out there, and lots of photographers, too.
With each family photo session, my goal is to capture timeless, authentic, and joy-filled moments, all while putting you at ease. Each gallery should capture your family’s unique story—a story too beautiful to be captured with one image type! Let’s talk about my three favorite photo types, and why all three should be included in your family photos.
No matter how natural you want your family photos to be, make sure you include at least a few classic smiles on your image list. These are the money shots! Classic family portraits are the images that end up as profile pictures, printed on holiday cards, and framed to make perfect gifts to grandparents. Family members not feeling their smiliest? I’ve got you covered. Check out my top 5 Tips for a Successful (and stress-free) Family Photo Session.
Yes, candid poses. Seems like an oxymoron, right? But let’s face it, you can’t always count on 30 minutes of stunning candid moments (depending on the length of your family photo session). Being super-posed the whole time can look pretty awkward, too. Enter: The candid pose. Since not everyone knows exactly what to do in front of the camera, staged candids are a great way to create an organic-looking shot, with a little guidance that allows your photographer to frame the composition exactly as they’d like. Most photographers come armed with prompts, poses and strategies to make you feel at ease, posed but not too posed. Feeling like yourself should come naturally! Each prompt gets you started so your personality can shine.
Of course, some of the very best family photos come from moments in between portraits and poses. Truly candid photos capture a moment in time as opposed to a beautiful photograph. There’s something to be said for both, but when it comes to images of authentic personality, candids definitely have the advantage. As a Colorado photographer, I’m all about making people feel at ease. I want you to have a memorable experience with your family, in addition to keeping joy-filled photos after the shutter stops. Candid photos will take some self-imposed pressure off, and allow you to remember how you felt instead of dwelling on how you looked.
Whether your family photos include 10 people, four generations, or two people and a dog, each image tells a story. Every chapter is important, and each and every season deserves to be remembered. No matter what you’re looking for in a family photo session, let’s capture the moments together!